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Don't Give
Up!!!
If your
child is taking music lessons, then your halls are alive with the sound of
music. Not exactly, you say? Well, don't be discouraged.
Those first few struggling notes are the hopeful beginnings of a long and
beautiful friendship with music. I know of nothing that adds as much
fun and happiness to a child's school years as the creative experiences he
or she will enjoy through music. Just ask any adult who has
travelled this road.
But your
child needs encouragement, your help and your approval. Talent and
intelligence are born in a student, but musical ability doesn't just
happen. It takes dedication and effort. It is not exaggeration
to say that behind each successful pupil there is a determined
parent. The world is full of people who now wish their parents had
required them to go on with music when they made the decision to give it
up.
After the
first few weeks of learning to play a musical instrument, it is common for
a child to lose some interest and excitement. The early stages of
playing an instrument are the most difficult. You can help your
child through this period by showing your support and confidence in your
child's ability to succeed.
Children
need to be motivated in order to learn and they are motivated best when
they can look forward to success. In all walks of life, people who
are successful are winners. Music makes Winners.
Gradually
your child will learn to master the instrument, and confidence will be
gained. Before this happens, the practice problems and frustrations
may cause your child to tell you that he or she wants to quit.
Especially when the going gets a little tough, as it will do in anything
worthwhile. But your child needs encouragement, your help and your
approval. Encourage your child to stay in lessons long enough
to gain confidence, self-respect and an enjoyment of music.
Encourage
your child to practice regularly, especially during extended vacation
periods. Praise him/her for their efforts. Show your interest
and enthusiasm and you'll see him/her grow into a well-adjusted youngster
with an appreciation of the value of personal effort. The study of
music will give him an outlet for excess energy and a means of developing
leadership. He/she learns discipline, and their perspective of the
future is greatly enhanced through the study of music and participation in
a musical organization.
If you are
willing to help your child past the difficult times, perhaps more than
music will be learned. Praise your young musician when he or she
does well and try not to be too critical. Help set up a regular
practice time and attend all concerts and performances to show your
support.
Please
contact me if you need any help or more suggestions. moremusic@hotmail.com
or if you or
your child would like private lessons please contact me and we will set up
a time for a free musical aptitude test. | |||||||
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